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| Frequently Asked Questions...Q. I have a very supportive partner, do I really need a doula?
A. In many cases, my role as a doula is to help your partner get involved by suggesting specific relaxation techniques and giving direction so that he/she can be an effective coach. An ideal labor is one where doula and partner work together. As your doula, I can also help to calm any uncertainty or fear either of you may have. I can also provide relief to your partner if he/she needs a break.
Q. I am planning on having an epidural, do I still need a doula?
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Yes! The main role of a doula is to support the mother and help her
have a positive birth experience. Whether you choose a medicated or
unmedicated birth, a doula will still provide the physical, emotional,
and informational support all laboring moms need. Though an epidural
may provide some level of pain relief, an epidural cannot:
- Give you a back rub
- Provide you with information about your birth options
- Bring you food or drink
- Provide you with reassurance and nurturing
- Help you with breathing techniques
- Offer breastfeeding support
- Give your partner a break
- Take photos
Q. I am having a C-section, is a doula useful in this situation?
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Yes! There are many roles a doula can fulfill. Having major abdominal
surgery can be a frightening experience. Hospital policy allowing, I
will be at your side to provide comfort and reassurance during your
c-section and initial recovery. Often the birth partner accompanies
the baby to the nursery and the mother finds herself alone for a period
of time. I will be at your side during this time as well.
Q. What if you get sick or are unavailable when I go into labor?
A. I plan to be on-call for 2 weeks prior to your due date. This means I will not schedule any travel or be unavailable for any reason. If I were to get sick or injured, I do have a back-up doula.
Q. What if my doctor is not supportive of doula support?
A. After meeting with you prenatally I will have a clear understanding of what is important to you. Your doctor will probably be present toward the end of your labor and will most likely not be there for emotional support and comfort during your labor. Doctors sometimes do not appreciate the value of a trained professional by your side since they don't always have a part in the majority of your labor. My job as a doula is completely separate from the work of your doctor. My background as a nurse allows me the ability to facilitate better communication between you and your doctor at a time when you need it the most. No doctor can prevent you from having a doula by your side. This is YOUR birth! | |
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